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The Master Guide for Relationship Compatibility
Is he ‘the one’?—the one I want to give my life, my loyalty and all my love?” “Is she ‘the one’?—the one who will treasure my visions, train our children, and take on my last name?” God designed everything, including our relationships, to function best with what it’s compatible with. Relationships are healthiest when there is compatibility where it matters most.
Often times in our love life, we allow “falling in love” to rob us of sound judgment and traditions to excuse us of the responsibility of choosing a life partner wisely. Marriage is one of the greatest investments you’ll ever make. But often times, the process to get to marriage—dating—looks more like preparing for a date-mate rather than a life-mate. The goal is to put biblical wisdom and common sense back into dating. “Marriage material” is not a person, but a standard that you must establish for yourself, based on what is most workable for you and the purpose God has for your life.
How to Deal, Heal & Move Forward for Real (WORKBOOK)
Everything in life has a beginning and an ending. We rarely have a problem completing a meal, a phone call, or a television show. But when it comes to“completing” a relationship, we often do a half-job. Most people are much better“starters” than “finishers”.When a relationship or a particular relationship interaction (FOR EX: an argument that gets out of hand) does not end in a way that gives the “closure” you feel you need, you become “incomplete” with that relationship. Instead of having feelings of freedom and wholeness, you feel anger, sadness, resentment, victim- mentality, pity-party, or numbness (hiding the pain beneath a mask).
Being complete with a relationship has less to do with ending it on a “good” note; but rather, processing and “digesting” the situation or the relationship in such away that you feel FREEDOM to move forward from it. Not completing a relationship or situation, is like food sitting in your throat, undigested it’s uncomfortable, unproductive & unnecessary. This exercise will help you to clear the emotional clutter and get free and complete from anything and everything draining your physical and emotional energy!
